What Every Couple Needs to Know
Marriage isn’t just a one-day event—it’s a lifelong journey that unfolds in seasons. Just like nature, your relationship will go through times of growth, challenge, renewal, and deep connection. Some seasons will feel effortless, while others may test your patience and commitment. But understanding these natural phases can help you and your partner embrace every moment—the highs, the lows, and everything in between.
At Chapman Hill Weddings + Events, we love celebrating the start of your journey, but we also know that a strong marriage is about more than just the wedding day. So, let’s dive into the four seasons of marriage and what each one teaches us about love, commitment, and lifelong partnership.
Spring: The Season of New Beginnings & Growth
Spring in marriage is filled with newness, excitement, and fresh starts. It’s the season where you’re planting roots, learning about each other on a deeper level, and growing together.
What This Season Looks Like:
The honeymoon phase—everything feels magical and effortless.
Dreaming big about your future, family, and goals.
Learning to merge your lives, from finances to family traditions.
Feeling excited about building a home and life together.
How to Thrive in Spring:
Communicate openly—talk about expectations, dreams, and fears.
Celebrate small wins—first anniversaries, new traditions, and everyday joys.
Be intentional about growth—invest in your relationship, whether through date nights, shared hobbies, or simply spending quality time together.
Spring is a time of hope and promise, but like any new season, it requires care and nurturing to flourish.
photo @johnandkymcreativeco
Summer: The Season of Passion & Busyness
Summer is fiery, exciting, and full of energy, but it can also be overwhelming. Life gets busier—whether it’s career demands, starting a family, or juggling responsibilities. Passion runs high, but so can stress and distractions.
What This Season Looks Like:
Deepened intimacy and connection—you feel more bonded than ever.
Balancing careers, kids, homeownership, or other major responsibilities.
Fun, adventure, and spontaneity—trips, experiences, and making memories.
But also... the risk of burnout, feeling stretched thin, or neglecting each other.
How to Thrive in Summer:
Prioritize each other even when life gets busy. Schedule intentional date nights.
Keep the spark alive—small romantic gestures, surprises, and quality time matter.
Work as a team—divide responsibilities and support each other in challenges.
Summer is a season of vibrancy and passion, but it requires effort to stay connected amidst the busyness.
photo - @taylorhandtephotography | coordinator - @georgiadollevents
Fall: The Season of Change & Maturity
As the leaves change, so does your marriage. Fall is a time of deepening love, reflection, and sometimes facing challenges. This is when couples truly begin to understand commitment beyond the romance.
What This Season Looks Like:
Feeling more settled, secure, and comfortable with each other.
Facing life transitions—children growing up, career shifts, or personal growth.
Learning to navigate conflict in healthier ways and appreciating each other’s differences.
Redefining romance—love may feel less fiery but becomes deeper and more meaningful.
How to Thrive in Fall:
Embrace change—marriage evolves, and that’s a beautiful thing!
Show appreciation—a simple “thank you” or an act of kindness goes a long way.
Lean into emotional connection—have meaningful conversations and create new shared experiences.
Fall reminds us that love is about commitment, gratitude, and adapting together.
photo - @emilylaurenphoto | coordination - @lovelydayweddings
Winter: The Season of Challenges & Deep Love
Every marriage experiences winter—times of hardship, loss, or distance. But winter isn’t just about difficulty; it’s also a season where love is tested and strengthened.
What This Season Looks Like:
External stressors—financial struggles, health issues, or personal hardships.
Feeling disconnected or stuck in a routine.
But also... a chance to deepen your bond through resilience and commitment.
Unwavering love—proving that marriage is about standing together in all seasons.
How to Thrive in Winter:
Be patient with each other—hard times don’t last forever.
Seek support—whether from each other, friends, counseling, or faith.
Find joy in the small things—even in winter, love can still grow.
Winter may feel cold, but it’s also a time of strength, renewal, and preparing for the next season of love.
hamu - @formalfaces | photo - @cuenca.creative | coordination - @georgiadollevents | floral - @bloomandivyweddings
No matter which season you’re in—whether it’s the excitement of spring, the passion of summer, the change of fall, or the challenges of winter—remember that each one has a purpose.
Marriage isn’t about avoiding difficult seasons; it’s about growing through them together. And just like nature, the seasons will change. If you're in a tough phase, a new season is on the horizon. If you're in a beautiful season, cherish it.
At Chapman Hill, we believe that a great wedding is just the beginning of a great marriage. If you’re looking for a place to start your forever, schedule a tour today and let’s celebrate your season of new beginnings!
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