Why Getting Ready on Site Sets the Tone for the Whole Day
- insightmediamgmt
- 2 days ago
- 6 min read
When most couples envision their wedding day, the first images that come to mind are usually the ceremony, the first kiss, or the dance floor at the reception. But ask any photographer or recently married couple what moments stick with them the most, and you might be surprised. Often, it’s the quiet, emotional, and sometimes hilariously candid moments that happen long before the first guest ever arrives.
At Chapman Hill Weddings + Events, we believe in the beauty of the full wedding experience—not just the headline moments. And one of the most overlooked yet meaningful parts of the day is the time spent getting ready. Choosing to get ready on site doesn’t just make logistical sense. It creates an atmosphere that sets the tone for the entire day: relaxed, present, and full of heartfelt connection.
Photo: @austyn_seitz_photography
A Calm Start in a Peaceful Setting
Wedding days move quickly. From the minute the first vendor arrives to the last sparkler exit, there’s a lot going on. Starting your day in a serene environment makes a huge difference in how you feel. Chapman Hill’s peaceful countryside location offers a grounding backdrop for the flurry of emotions and activities ahead.
Instead of rushing from a hotel or squeezing into a cramped space at a salon, couples who get ready at Chapman Hill begin their day surrounded by familiar faces, natural beauty, and quiet joy. The property was designed with comfort in mind, so there's space to breathe—mentally and physically. That sense of ease often translates into smoother transitions, fewer delays, and more genuine moments.
Photo - @johnandkymcreativeco | Coordinator - @georgiadollevents
The Magic of Meaningful Moments
There are certain things that just happen more naturally when you’re getting ready at your wedding venue. The first time your mom sees you in your dress. The bridesmaids’ reactions to your final look. The best man helping with cufflinks. A quick prayer with your grandparents. These aren’t planned events, but they often become the most treasured memories.
When you get ready on site, those meaningful moments have space to happen. There’s no tight travel schedule or pressure to rush through hair and makeup to get to another location. Instead, there’s time for spontaneous laughter, deep conversations, and emotional exchanges that would be impossible to stage.
Chapman Hill provides comfortable, designated spaces for both sides of the wedding party. These aren’t just dressing rooms—they’re places where memories are made. Whether it’s the clink of champagne glasses or the sound of a playlist you all made together, the energy is yours to create.
Photo - @kaitvictoriaphoto | Florals - @sheilsriveraweddings | Planner - @lacecoweddings
Better Photos, More Emotion
Some of the most emotionally resonant wedding photos aren’t taken during the ceremony or first dance. They’re taken during those intimate getting-ready hours, when excitement and anticipation are at their peak. A tearful hug. A handwritten note. A long glance in the mirror.
Photographers love when couples get ready on site because it allows for more storytelling. Instead of having to coordinate multiple locations, the entire narrative can unfold naturally in one place. Chapman Hill’s well-lit interiors and scenic outdoor nooks give photographers the perfect canvas to capture everything from styled flat lays to raw, heartfelt emotion.
Even better, when you're not pressed for time or in transit, your photographer has more freedom to be creative. They can float between both parties, capture little interactions, and catch the beauty in the in-between moments.
Photo - @taylorhandtephotography | Coordinator - @georgiadollevents
First Looks, Private Vows, and Family Blessings
Getting ready on site also opens the door to some incredibly special moments that only happen when there’s time and privacy. Many Chapman Hill couples choose to do a first look before the ceremony, whether with their partner, their parents, or even their wedding party. It’s a deeply emotional way to connect and ground yourself before the formalities begin.
Private vows are another trend that’s grown in popularity—and for good reason. Saying your most personal words in a quiet space away from the crowd adds depth and intimacy to the day. Chapman Hill offers several beautiful spots on the property where couples can steal away for a few minutes, exchange vows, and soak in the gravity of the moment.
Some couples also include family traditions during this time—a blessing from grandparents, a prayer circle, or the passing down of heirlooms. These rituals often don’t fit neatly into the timeline later in the day, so having that slower start to the day makes all the difference.
Photo - @southernframe_studio | Coordinator - @lovelydayweddings
Fewer Logistics, More Ease
From a planning standpoint, getting ready at your venue can help simplify your day. There’s no need to coordinate transportation between a hotel and the ceremony site. You eliminate the risk of traffic delays, forgotten items left behind, or vendors struggling to locate you.
Chapman Hill is equipped with spaces that comfortably accommodate both sides of the wedding party. There’s plenty of room for hair and makeup artists to set up, for friends to hang out and snack, and for photographers to move around freely. And when it’s time to walk down the aisle, there’s no scrambling. Just a natural flow from one part of the day to the next.
Photo - @johnandkymcreativeco
Photo - @johnandkymcreativeco
A Day That Feels Like Yours
One of the best things about getting ready on site is that it makes the entire wedding day feel more cohesive and centered around you. Instead of spending hours in places that have nothing to do with your love story, you get to experience every part of the day at a location you intentionally chose.
At Chapman Hill, we love seeing couples feel truly at home on their wedding day. The laughter echoing from the dressing rooms, the music playing in the background, the sight of a bride peeking out the window to see guests arriving—it all contributes to a day that feels personal, not performative.
When your day begins in a place that puts you at ease, the rest of your celebration often follows suit. The timeline flows more naturally. Guests pick up on the calm energy. And you’re able to be fully present, soaking in each moment as it comes.
Coordinator -Sarah Copeland | Photo - @carinmcmillianphoto | Floral - Jana Fredricks
Your wedding day is full of beautiful moments—some planned, others unexpected. By choosing to get ready on site, you open the door to a deeper, more meaningful experience. From emotional photos and heartfelt traditions to the simple joy of not rushing, it’s one of the most powerful (and practical) decisions you can make.
Chapman Hill Weddings + Events is more than a backdrop for your vows. It’s a place where your entire love story can unfold, from the quiet moments of anticipation to the last dance under the stars. So take your time, breathe it in, and let the day be as full and unforgettable as your love.
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Chapman Hill is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations.
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