No, You Don’t Owe Anyone a Plus-One at Your Wedding in Northeast Georgia—Here’s Why
- insightmediamgmt
- Mar 26
- 3 min read
Planning your wedding should be about celebrating your love—not tiptoeing around guest list drama. But one of the biggest pressure points? The dreaded plus-one debate.
Some guests expect an automatic plus-one, even if they’re single or barely know you. Others might guilt-trip you into inviting their new fling or work buddy. But here’s the truth: you are NOT obligated to give every guest a plus-one.
At Chapman Hill Weddings + Events, we’ve seen this debate play out time and time again, and we’re here to tell you—it’s okay to set boundaries. Here’s how to handle the plus-one conversation without the stress.
photo - @photography.byjulien | coordination - @lovelydayweddings | floral - @floralbyvictoria_official
Who Actually Gets a Plus-One?
There are some situations where a plus-one makes sense—and others where it’s totally optional.
Married couples & engaged partners – If someone is legally or seriously committed, they’re a package deal. No questions asked.
Long-term, live-in partners – If they’ve been together for years and share a home, you should invite both.
Wedding party members – Your bridesmaids and groomsmen are dedicating time, energy, and money to your big day. Giving them a plus-one is a nice gesture if your budget allows.
Out-of-town guests who won’t know anyone – If someone is flying solo from far away, letting them bring a date can make their experience more enjoyable.
photo- stepping stones photography
Who Doesn’t Automatically Get a Plus-One?
Single guests with no serious partner – Just because someone is single doesn’t mean they need a date. It’s totally okay to invite them solo.
Coworkers & casual acquaintances – If you wouldn’t pay for their date’s meal at a restaurant, why should you at your wedding?
New relationships – That guest who just met someone last week? Yeah, you don’t need to add an extra seat for them.
Friends who just assume they get one – If they don’t fit into the categories above, it’s not your responsibility to include an extra guest.
photo - @saraheubanksphoto | coordination- @lovelydayweddings | floral - @a.fancy.situation
How to Politely Say ‘No’ to Plus-One Requests
If someone asks, “Can I bring a date?”, here’s how to respond gracefully but firmly:
“We’d love to have everyone bring a guest, but due to budget and space, we’re only able to accommodate close family and long-term partners.”
“We’re keeping our guest list intimate, so we’re only including spouses and serious relationships. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!”
“Our venue has a limited capacity, so we had to make some tough guest list decisions. We hope you understand and can’t wait to celebrate together!”
At Chapman Hill, we know how valuable each seat is—both financially and for the atmosphere of your big day. Your wedding, your rules. Period.
photo: @austyn_seitz_photography | floral: @ruthies.flowers
You’re inviting guests to share in your love story, not to provide them with a free date night. It’s okay to set boundaries, stick to your budget, and prioritize the people who truly matter to you.
If you need a venue that understands the challenges of guest list management, Chapman Hill Weddings + Events is here to help. From intimate gatherings to large celebrations, we’ll make sure every guest feels welcome—plus-one or not.
Ready to plan a wedding that’s 100% on your terms? Schedule a tour of Chapman Hill today!
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